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Saturday, November 28, 2015

What We Thought: Marcelo in the real world by Francisco X. Stork



Evening Book Club Blog
November 25, 2015
Marcelo in the real world by Francisco X. Stork

Marcelo’s father Arturo has insisted that he change his summer plan from working with ponies at his school to a job in the mail room at his father’s law firm. The deal is that Marcelo must follow the rules of the “real world” in order to earn the privilege of returning to finish his senior year at his school.

Readers exclaimed that they “loved, loved, loved” Marcelo and his story. They recognized the point-counter point of the characters who were on Marcelo’s side and those who would take advantage of his naiveté. He was truly a good person who made decisions that fit into his life in a positive way. The discussion was evenly divided between those who accepted his childlike nature and wish to be left alone in his own world and those who felt that he should accept the challenge of the “real world” and move on to an independent life. No one changed their mind after the discussion ended, but everyone cheered for Marcelo and the outcome of his decisions.

Readers were very involved with Marcelo’s experiences and wanted to know about the author’s background and how he was able to write so convincing and emphatically about Asperger’s. They speculated about what happens to Marcelo after the book ends and wanted to talk personally with the author. Several plan to read his other books and talked quite a bit about them while reading from the book club discussion guide.

Quotes from Marcelo and his character traits were recognized as authentic and truthful. Most readers thought that his father Arturo pushed Marcelo out of his comfort zone into the “real world” for his own reasons and not for the benefit of Marcelo. It worked out for Marcelo anyway so it would have been a win-win situation except for Marcelo’s discovery of malfeasance in the law firm.

Marcelo found his way in the “real world” on his own with the support of his mother who some believed to be over protective but kind and understanding. His discussions with Rabbi Heschel revealed another dimension to his character and readers quoted passages of scripture from the book which resonated with them. Jasmine from the mail room encouraged him and accepted his somewhat unorthodox ways of doing things. She opened his eyes to new experiences and independence. Ixtel, the girl with an injured face showed Marcelo the positive as well as negative aspects of misfortune. Wendell, the other partner’s son was a bully, but Marcelo soon learned not to let him take advantage of any situation. One reader said, There are lots or weasels in the world like Wendell.”

Readers spoke about characters from TV shows and books who reminded them of Marcelo and others in his life. Eddy Haskell from Leave it to Beaver is a clone of Wendell and Sheldon from the Big Bang Theory could be Marcelo a few years in the future. It was said that Marcelo is a gentle soul and we need more of him in the world. Some readers decided to let Marcelo live in the “real world”. The world will not go away. He has to live there or he won’t be able to live on his own. He found his own place in the real world and will be self-sufficient. Others said that he should be left alone to live in his world because it’s a better life. One reader suggested that the group should end the evening with a rendition of “Imagine” by John Lennon. They declined.

Have you read Marcelo in the real world? What did you think? Please share your thoughts in comments.

Wednesday, October 28, 2015

What We Thought: Weekends with Daisy by Sharron Kahn Luttrell




 WHAT WE THOUGHT: WEEKENDS WITH DAISY BY SHARRON KAHN LUTTRELL

 Evening Book Club
Weekends with Daisy
Sharron Kahn Luttrell
October 2015 

“The weekend program for prison-raised service dogs sounded perfect. Pick up a puppy on Friday; return it on Sunday. A new puppy each year, no strings attached. Except that the pup is a Golden Labrador called Daisy…and Daisy is not a no strings-attached dog.”  -- Sharron Luttrell

Readers discussed the author’s story with mixed emotions. Some said they found the story boring and didn’t understand the author’s motivations about being involved with the NEADS  (The National Education for Assistance Dog Services). Others really liked the story and said that they can’t wait to talk to the author when she comes to Halifax in November. Further discussion revealed that the group consisted of “dog people” and those who didn’t understand the connection between human and canine interactions. None of the members had direct experience with service dogs so the author’s involvement with and dedication to Daisy and the program was quite a revelation for all of them. 

Readers decided that this was just not a story about a woman and her dog but also about changes in belief, behavior and the promise of rehabilitation. All were impressed with the author’s progress from her simple desire to train a dog to a woman with a realization of her own place in the world and her connection with others who had the same goals with different reasons than her own. She changed from her self-centered wish for a dog to rededicate herself to complete the project for the sake of Daisy’s other trainer. Readers decided that the lesson of the book was that dedication to a person or project like NEADS is for the greater good, and shows empathy and compassion for someone no matter how one feels about them.

Daisy changed during the course of her training from a curious and playful puppy to a dog with a purpose ready and waiting for a command to assist her companion. Readers suggested that perhaps we should be more service oriented like Daisy. Living in the moment would increase self-control and allow humans to be attuned to each other and reach their potential as well as Daisy did. One reader commented that she learned a great deal from the author’s experience with her daughter and that she wished she had read the book before she got a dog.  Another reader said although she had been a teacher for forty years she was surprised about how much she learned about behavior from reading about the interaction between the dogs and their trainers.
 
At the end of the evening’s discussion after all was said and done,  no one said that they would want to recreate Sharron Luttrell’s experience and train their own service dog. The “dog people” said they would not be able to give up a dog that they had brought into their life and the others said that it would be too much work for them.


More quotes from book club members: 

“I liked it!”
“I loved it! Learned a lot about training kids and dogs”
“Really liked the book, did repeat herself some, maybe I shouldn’t admit it, but my son’s first words were “bad dog”.
“Not heavy, but liked the topic, nice story.
“Book seemed very real; people could have been living next door. Charming because it was real.”
“I have always had dogs and have a yellow lab now that has a mind of her own. She has us trained. I think it must be rewarding when you see the dog matched with 
someone.”

Have you read Weekends with Daisy? What did you think? Please share your thoughts in comments.